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friends life choices patriotic 2/9/2012
I have a friend that over the past 4 months has had 3 boyfriends, the thing that is concerning to me is that the last with the last one she became really intimate and started birth-control. Now she has broken up with him due to the fact he found out he has a one year old kid in Montana, so at the current moment she is going to start doing what she calls "Friends With Benefits" with a guy she hardly knows. I know she needs a lot of pray and i have been praying but i feel really concerned do you think there is anything else i can do?? I have seen her reading her bible on the bus lately to. Her dad also died of a drug over dose when she was 12 she never knew him before that either. She is a Senior in high school.
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Sounds like she needs a heavenly father to remind her she is his princess. Maybe you could remind her too? Let her know you want positive things for her future because she has more potential than settling for a so-so life. She needs deep spiritual counseling at this time or things will just get worse.
-- By: wendy

Rapture ginia 10/22/2011
I have two freinds at my school. We do like everything together. I go to a christan school, with those silly dress codes and all. These two girls are Sunday Keepers. And they believe in the Rapture. I'm an SDA, i love my church. These two freinds are always invitting me to events at there churchs which take place on a Friday night. of course, i can't go. They want me to spend the night, i can't of course. The last few times weve hung out together, they have asked me to do things with them Friday nights. and when i explained why i couldnt, one of the girls said "Your church is weird" and then the other said "yeah, your church is like a colt." i asked them why and they said "because you guys dont believe in the rapture!! if you dont believe in that, then you must not belive in the Bible at all, Ginia. you can't just pick and choise what to believe in when it comes to the Bible." This really hurt me. Now should i not hang out with these girl
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HI gina. i am a pastor daughter and i know that some sunday keepers believe in the rapture, and if u ask them why they will show u matthew 24:40-41 where it says one will be taken and the other left. bcuz of this txt they believe that, but u can explain them like this: 1)read mat. 24:40-41 2)then read luke 17:30-37. isnt it the same story? but in vrs 37 it says Where, Lord? And he said unto them, Wheresoever the body is, there the vultures will gather.
-- By: RBSX4CR72J

n/a FilipinoFeather 9/2/2010
I have this friend who is aboslutely miserable because she can't have any contact with her bf untill shes 18 which is in 7 months.. And I hate to see her this way but I don't know what to do. I feel like shes partially like this because she had sex with him about a month ago and so maybe that's why.. I don't know. Help?
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The best thing that you can do is be a good friend to her and pray for, and maybe even with, her. If she and her BF were getting too intimate, it might be best that they are apart for awhile. And even though there isn't a whole lot that you can personally do, being a supportive friend is always key. If she's going through a tough time, she'll appreciate having someone to lean on.
-- By: Syberia

Pregnant TheNeverEndingNightmare 8/25/2010
Here is the thing today my friend came to me because she has been depressed lately so she came to talk to me about it and she told me that a couple weeks ago she had sex with her bf.. But now she doesn't know if shes pregnant or not because she hasn't had her period since then.. What do I do? Should I tell her mom now? Or wait to see if she gets her period.
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whoa, don't tell her mother, let her do that. i had a friend who's cousin told her mother that she had sex. the mother told the father who then beat her black and blue. literally, she has marks all over her legs and back. so seriously her mother's not gonna laugh if she finds out from a 3rd party plus you'll probably ruin you're own friendship too.
-- By: Amzi

Friends Cara 6/29/2010
One of my best friends recently told me she was gay. I know this was a big secret for her to trust me with, so when she told me I didn't say much except that I still loved her and would be there for her as a friend. I told her how I really felt about the situation last night...that I thought the way she was going with her life was wrong. However, I don't think it's going to change how she is. I am in a tough spot because I want to be there for her, but I don't want to compromise my beliefs about homosexuality that are grounded in the Bible by showing too much support. How do I stay true to her as a friend and display my morals and beliefs at the same time?
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Don't react the way Insight Magazine recommends in its Jan. 15, 2011 edition, and be scared to be in a room with her alone. Very few gay people are likely to try to start something with a straight person, and even if they tried to start, if you decline their advances, it should be easy for you to keep anything from happening that you don't want.
-- By: Alvin

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